gave us a Pollen Street Social preview. Some have become good friends who we now meet with on a social basis while others (chefs and foodies alike) we know from the on-line world, especially Twitter, and we're getting to know them and their food for real is something we have to look forward to.
Of course, that connection to the people of food also presents its own difficulties, especially when we've had a bad meal. We recognise that these are people businesses as much as food businesses and the lives and efforts of many people went in to brining us the food on our plate. But we do start off wanting to enjoy every meal, not least because each one is paid for by ourselves, there's no expense account or reimbursement behind any of our dining. We want to have a good time and even if things do go wrong, the right approach by staff can make all the difference.
One Michelin starred chef phoned us personally to complain about a blog posting and simply wouldn't be mollified, regardless of our offer to try and make things good. Another restaurateur however, on reading a disappointing review, asked us to return to show that our bad experience was a one off and we did; on receiving a better second meal, we blogged its praises and still eat there to this day.
We're also aware that blogging and Tweeting is still a new frontier and everyone from bloggers to chefs are comi

ng to grips with the new landscape, while mistakes will be made on both sides. Some tolerance is likely needed in both directions. The debate still rages too in areas like cameras in restaurants. For our part, we're willing to use a decent camera (reasonably quickly and discretely we hope) so that the pictures we put on our blog present the food in the best light, so doing it justice. We think that posting to the web blurred and gloomy camera phone pictures of food that the kitchen has brilliantly prepared, cooked and plated is more disrespectful to the restaurant/chef than anything we do with our Nikon.
Once out there in the public domain, whether it's restaurants or food blogs, the offering will delight some, disappoint others and open itself up for criticism. We like our blog, we hope others will like our blog but we also know that along the way, some will take issue with what we write, not least because food and restaurants are very much a subjective (and variable) experience. Comments on the blog are welcome as is a direct dialogue with us. Opinion exchange is part of the fun of both food and having the blog, and in the words of literary critic Northrop Frye:
The only way to forestall the work of criticism is through censorship, which has the same relation to criticism that lynching has to justice.
We hope you enjoy.