for a period after leaving The Westbury.
"The team for me is everything," he said, and this includes the front of house. "They're amazing."
Describing his team as "just like a dysfunctional family," he said, "I'm hoping they stay for a long time."
With staffing being an issue for almost every restaurant in the country, you might ask, what is his secret? One might be that for everything the chef gleaned from his previous workplaces, he learned lessons about how not to manage his team, too.
"Do you remember, when you were a CDP and you used to watch your head chef and just think, 'ugh, what a k***head, I'm definitely not going to be like that.'"
"I'm really trying to remember that and put it into operation."
Open communication allows him to lead a cohesive team, another marked shift from some of his predecessors.
"Ten years ago, you weren't really allowed to talk about what you were thinking or doing or what was going on in your life," it was more a case of "leave your troubles at the door."
At The Grill, "everyone in the team knows each other's business and they're all there for each other, it's really nice to see."
"It's super important to have that culture," he said, because "these guys work so much harder than me. I'm not afraid to admit it."
The chef remembers being told by one of his ex-chefs about a so-called 'circle of life,' whereby "you get a chef, they're rubbish, you make them half decent, then they make them good, and then they leave. Then you start again."
"I remember thinking, 'I don't think that's true,' if you give them more opportunities to grow," through promotions, giving them creative input on the menu, "you give them something which is theirs, you let them run the pass, then they feel a part of it."
"I really want to give them the opportunity to grow as well and I think that's why they've all stuck with me."
"I think that's my key, I'm nothing without the team."
And the star?
To have scooped the Chef of the Year award at the National Restaurant Awards was as joyous at it was a surprise to Tom, having only been open for eleven and a half months in the two years since he took on the role.
If nothing else, he said, the recognition helps see you through difficult times.
"You have good days and bad days, but Jesus, some days are hard."
"To realise it is for something and you are on the right path - it doesn't matter what path it is - it's just nice. It just gives you a little pat on the back."
As for the much-coveted star, he said: "It's definitely the dream, I'm not going to sit here and say I don't want it, because I'd be lying and be a d**k, but that's my background and all the team's background as well.
"The major reason I'd want it is for the team because they all come from two stars and one stars and hopefully if we did win it, they wouldn't leave."
But as always, the customer comes first.
"We have regulars all the time, every single service we have a regular, that's the most important. It doesn't matter about accolades. Your customers coming in, keep coming in, returning business, paying their full bill, being happy, being on that journey with us.
"Then it's the team, keeping the team happy, front of house, back of house" - not a small feat, with a total of forty people to manage.
"If the accolades come, they come, but I'm not going to lose sleep over it."
"I know they've been in a few times, I spot them when they come in, they know that I know that they're there. So, whatever. If they think it's not good enough, then it's not good enough, there's nothing else I can do."
"It is a legendary guide and what they've done for the industry is great, but I think since Covid, there's a lot more to life isn't there. Looking after each other and being human is more important."